The Love and Money Correlation
We've all heard the warning: if spouses aren't aligned on money, the marriage is headed for trouble. It's a valid concern, but it begs a deeper question—one I've unknowingly pursued for the past five years: Why are love and money so inextricably linked, far beyond mere practicality? On the surface, money seems essential for survival (though that "seems" is worth examining). When abundant, it sparks suspicion: Does my partner love me , or my resources? When scarce, it tests endurance: Can love survive financial strain, or does it hinge on skillful management? In either case, love becomes entangled with provision, turning intimacy into something transactional. For some, this entanglement runs deeper—love conditioned on compliance. "If you behave, I'll buy the toy." "If you align with my views, I'll provide." "If you surrender control, I'll secure your future." What begins as a parent's attempt to instill discipline o...